1) If he says. “I wonder if they split bills here” within the first 3 minutes
Before you climb on some kind of high horse and drop bombs on us for suggesting the man pay, we’re not saying that. But if a guy is so concerned about the cost of dinner that he can’t even sniff his wine first, he’s got issues. Financial or otherwise. Either way, it’s not a good sign. Bye, Felicia.
2) If he asks you about any “private tattoos or piercings”
Red light – he’s already thinking about whether you’ll share a Silver Service or an Uber. If you’re down for that, cool. But just know that’s what he’s hoping will be happening later.
3) If he invites a friend
Go. Don’t say bye. Don’t even show up if you know beforehand.
4) If he’s rude to the waitress
OK, we’re not talking about getting a little cranky if they spill a drink on his crotch or if he gets a hair in his lasagne. We’re talking about throwing his weight around like he’s Mariah Carey about tables, cutlery placement, or the menu. Super embarrassing and unnecessary.
5) If he insists on ordering for you – without asking what you like
Know what’s cute? When you’re BF knows what you like and orders accordingly. Know what’s not cute? When a guy assumes he knows what you’ll eat despite never having eaten a meal near you before. BYE.